Yes Phil, go ahead and vent.
As John basically says, first money wins and that is OK. Of course I do not agree (EBay is a auction atmosphere and in theory, LAST money should win) but I understand. In this particular case, it is the seller that is at fault. The seller ended the auction, sold the item to John without listing it with a Buy It Now at John's offer. So EBay gets cheated out of their New Listing Fee and Final Value Fee. It is impossible to stop people that have big dollars from overbidding and it is also impossible to stop buyers from making offers to end auctions early. It is up to the sellers to do things within the rules of EBay. This seller is 100% wrong and I have reported him, John is only wrong ethically by going around corners and making offers to tempt sellers to do the wrong thing (you know, like Eve did to Adam with the apple).
My problem with this is, I see it happening more and more and I know in the long run it will, if left unchecked, create a market on EBay that has no rules. That would be too bad because I see EBay as a unique creation that brings the auction world to the common man's house on a daily basis. It enables me to do business from home easily and I like it that way.
Yes John, it makes me mad

when I see unethical business anywhere. Doing business honestly is what creates a atmosphere of longevity in business. I did outbid you on that multi colored 85 but I outbid you at auction, not by going behind the scenes and making the seller a back door offer. I think that makes a difference.
